Several weeks ago, Barbi Robnett and I were discussing the nature of missions, why they are important, and basically bantering different thoughts back and forth. During the course of that conversation, I suggested that Barbi write a guest post for our blog. So she did. This is what she wrote:
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Go to the land I will show you (Gen 12:1) Go, just pack it up and go, just trust me and go. Leave your family and go. Leave your comfort and go. Leave your dreams and go. Leave your plans and go. Just go. How amazed and confounded we are when we see someone answer the call today. As American Christians we cling to our rights. I have the right to be comfortable, the right to own a home, the right to raise my kids in safety and comfort. So we struggle when we see our brothers or sisters give up their “rights” and answer the call. When a sister gives up the dream of marriage and family, so she can go to the mission field. The brother who leaves his family to join the Army and go where the fighting is. The couple who leave behind beloved friends and family and take their children to a foreign country because they heard God say go.
Why does it bother us so much? Some of us gather around and remind them of all they are giving up and all that could go wrong. Others thank God we are not the one called because we fear deep down that we would not make the sacrifice. And still others have our conscience pierced. We bow our knee before God and pray that we would have the faith that these have. We are challenged by their obedience.
We love the idea of missions. To go to a foreign land, to feed the hungry, clothe the naked, love the unlovable and share the Gospel. The short term mission allows us to experience this is some small way. We can go without making a huge sacrifice. We can take 2 weeks out of our summer, many of us getting paid our vacation days to go. We raise money or get donations so we don’t have feel the pinch in our budget. We get to see and experience a foreign country with the comfort of a guide to take us around and set up a place to stay and transportation for us. Don’t get me wrong I do believe there is a place for short term missions. I have been on them, prepared for them as well as trained teens for them. But did you know that American short term missions are fairly new? They began after world war 2, when churches would take tradesmen to war torn countries for a few weeks to help rebuild what the war had destroyed. After awhile the church decided that taking teens on these missions would be a way to make them aware of people and cultures in need. By exposing our teens to the needs of people around the world it would instill a christian world view. Making them more aware of the need to share the love of God and the Gospel, not only abroad but also at home.
I have seen teens changed by this experience, in fact both of my kids were changed because of a short term mission. It seems to me that short term missions have become so easy and so frequent we now see less long-term missionaries. And sadly there are those in the church that discourage people from becoming long term missionaries. But there is a great need for them. Short term missions are like mountain top experiences. Like when we go to a retreat and we have this great time of pulling away from the world. However when it is over we go back down the mountain and back into the pressures and trails of daily life. When we fly home all excited and pumped from our “mission” the national goes home, to the valley. The teacher that helped at camp goes home to the unsaved husband. The friend you made goes back to her loneliness of being single and feeling like there is no one out there for her. The mother goes back to the sick family member. That kid at camp goes back to the pressure from their friends, hiding his Christianity. That teen goes back to the relationship that wars against their soul by being unequally yoked and constantly tempted to immorality. And it will be a year until we see them again, if we even return.
The long term missionary is there, not only on the mountain top, but also in the valley. They are there to walk through the hard times with them. Though I have been on short term missions for 10 years now, I do not consider myself a missionary at all. How can I? I have not lived what they live everyday, even when I lived there for 3 months, I did not work and get paid their wages. I did not experience the persecution of being a christian in their country. I did not experience the valley with them. I was still an outsider. The long term missionary makes the ultimate sacrifice for them, leaves their homeland, their family, their comforts and first lives as an outsider until trust is gained and slowly they become one of them. And what is their goal? Same as the short term missionary. To win souls for Christ, but the long term missionary can do what the short timer can’t. They can go and make disciples.
I am a huge supporter of what C J and Chelsi are doing and let me tell you why. Well first off they both heard God say go. But let me tell you from experience just because one partner feels God sending them doesn’t mean the other one does. So the fact that they are in unity is huge! I have known CJ since he was a young boy and have seen him grow up in the ways of the Lord, he has the training and preparation to make disciples in Ireland. He has been to Bible college. He has been on short term missions and acclimates well to his surroundings. And he will eat just about anything. (This is important in missions.) Chelsi is beloved by so many, because she is so real and relatable to people. She too has been teaching the Bible for a few years now. Most importantly they desire to glorify God in all they do and desire to see people come to the saving knowledge of Jesus as well as grow in the faith.
I have heard this “Of course he thinks he is called to Ireland, he has always wanted to go there cause he is Irish” and to those people I say, “So” I feel called to missions, I am Italian, I love Italy and have been there but I don’t feel called to Italy. And who is to say that God didn’t plant that desire in CJ long ago in preparation for this calling? Isn’t it a good thing that he feels love and a passion for these people and this country? Isn’t it a good thing that he has that connection? Couldn’t that be God working in him? Of course it could be.
How about this one “How could he do this to his kids”? Do what? Teach them to give up everything to follow where God leads? Show them that all that truly matters in this life is obedience to God. “How could he move them so far away from family and friends?” Missionaries today have it so much easier then they did just 80 years ago. Today they can fly home in less then 24 hours, then it took weeks by boat. Today they can call or Skype anytime, then they had to wait weeks or months for letters to go back and forth. Is is going to be difficult at times? Yes, but shame on us Christians today that believe if God asks us to do something difficult we shouldn’t have to to do.
“But how will you support them CJ at least here you have a job.” To all of you who say this, you are the answer to that question. By supporting them financially. Cut back a little and you will find 20.00 a month to send. Cut back a lot and you can find 100.00. As Americans we don’t give enough. We really don’t. When we get a little extra money, we spend it on new furniture because ours is a little worn. We spend it on vacation because we need a break. We spend it on a new floor because we are tired of the color of this one. We buy pictures for the walls, and new clothes etc. I am convinced all of us can afford to give something, but we don’t discipline ourselves to do it.
If you truly feel you can’t give then you can organize a fund raiser. You could hold a yard sale. If the church would put as much effort into raising money for long-term missions as we do for short term missions, Cj and Chelsi would have their bills paid and have some left over to clothe some orphans or feed the homeless. Think about it. A team of 12 short term missionaries will cost about 24000.00 maybe more with the gas prices. This would support Cj and Chelsi for a year. In that year they will accomplish so much more then a team will accomplish in 2 weeks. Am I saying don’t send them team? No, what I am saying is that, the church should be as supportive if not more supportive for Cj and Chelsi’s longterm mission as they are of the short term team.
I believe in what Cj and Chelsi are doing. It’s not easy, and everyone around them should be doing what they can to support them. It is a great gift they are giving to Pierce and Phin, to be living examples of what it means to follow Christ. To teach them that nothing in this world should hold them back from being obedient to God. It is a huge challenge for all of those around them, a time to ask ourselves do I have the faith to do the hard stuff God asks me to do? It is an opportunity to show our gratitude to God for all that he gives us, by praying and asking God how we can contribute financially to support them. To everyone reading this I encourage you to educate your self about missions. Read about Amy Carmicheal, Jim Elliot, Mother Teresa, Gladys Aylwood, William Carey, Eric Liddell, the list goes one. It is not an easy life by no means, so be an encouragement and a supporter of your brothers and sisters who answer the call. Let me say it again, it is NOT an easy life by NO means, and they know it, believe me, it is scary, so don’t pile on fear in fact ask God if He would have you partner with them as they answer the call to GO.
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I am extremely humbled by Barbi’s words, and for her support of what the Lord is calling us to, and I appreciate her friendship.
If you have any questions, or you would like to talk to me about the work in Ireland, our prayer needs, or if the Lord leads you to partner with us financially in this work, you can write me at hiskid@calvarychapelbhc.org or call me at 928-758-2636. Much love and gratitude to you all!